What to Do After You Get Engaged
10 Things to Do Before You Even Set a Date
1. Celebrate the Moment –
Don’t rush. Take time to enjoy being engaged — just the two of you. Pop some bubbly, take a few engagement selfies, and let the joy sink in. Share the news with your closest loved ones before posting online.
2. Get Your Ring Insured –
It may not sound romantic, but this one is important. Call your renter’s or homeowner’s insurance company and ask about adding your ring to your policy. It’s a simple step that protects something so special.
3. Talk About a Rough Timeline –
You don’t need to set a date yet — just start a light conversation. Do you both imagine a spring or fall wedding? In your hometown or a destination? This helps narrow your focus before diving into the details.
4. Discuss a Budget (Even a Loose One) –
Money talk isn’t glamorous, but it’s one of the biggest planning essentials. Have an honest discussion about:
- Who’s contributing
- What you’re both comfortable spending
- How you want to prioritize (venue vs. dress, guest count vs. travel, etc.)
5. Download Your Wedding Planning Checklist –
There’s a lot to remember, and a good checklist keeps it all from feeling overwhelming. I created a free printable wedding checklist that is simple and easy to follow.
6. Start a Shared Inspiration Board –
Create a joint Pinterest board, Google Drive folder, or even a Canva project to start collecting ideas. Look at color palettes, venues, dresses, flowers — anything that speaks to your vision. You don’t need all the answers, just inspiration.
7. Draft a Rough Guest List –
Even a rough estimate will help you:
- Choose the right venue
- Get a sense of overall cost
- Know whether you’ll need something intimate or larger
8. Decide If You’ll Work With a Wedding Planner –
Planners aren’t just for big-budget weddings! Even hiring someone for day-of coordination can be a lifesaver. If you plan to DIY everything, now’s the time to get organized with tools and timelines (hint: your checklist will help).
9. Think About Key Vendors Early –
Popular venues and photographers book up fast — especially for peak seasons. If there’s a dream vendor you really want, it’s okay to start reaching out and getting info even before your date is official.
10. Soak It All In –
Planning a wedding is a big deal — but being engaged is a unique, joyful season. Don’t skip over this part. Plan a celebratory dinner, go on a “just engaged” weekend trip, or simply enjoy introducing each other as fiancés. It’s a once-in-a-lifetime feeling!
Ready to Get Organized?
Planning your dream wedding should feel joyful, not chaotic. That’s why I made a beautiful, easy-to-follow wedding checklist you can print and add to your wedding planning binder.
🎀 Click below to grab your free PDF wedding checklist!
